Georgina Wilson on being dumped: It was such a shock!
Georgina Wilson is described by friends as a finance whiz, a fiercely loyal friend, and a hard worker |
Georgina
Wilson is a fixture on billboards, magazine covers, publications’ most
beautiful and most stylish lists, and red-carpet VIP events. So what kind of
problems and issues would someone this gorgeous and influential face? Here are
10 things you should know about Georgina Wilson.
1. Georgina has lived in Yorkshire, Manila,
Sydney, and London.
“The more places you live in and the more people you’re exposed to, the more
you get to know yourself.”
Georgina
was born in Texas, grew up on a farm in a
small town in Yorkshire, England, before moving to Manila when she was 11 years old.
“My
dad always wanted me to study abroad. I moved to Sydney
(for university) because I still wanted to feel close to Manila. I think it was one of the best
decisions I’ve made. When you live alone you inevitably learn things you will
never learn when you live with your parents. I think I also thought I was so
smart, I was so used to a syst/em that I knew how to do well in. But a different
one was thrown at me and there were times when I felt, ‘Can I get run over by a
car because I don’t know how I’m gonna answer this next exam?’” shares the
former student of Bachelor of Commerce with a major in Accounting and Finance
at the University
of Sydney. “My parents
never put pressure on me, not once did they check my grades, they just wanted
me to be happy,” says Georgina of her parents
Robert Wilson and Aurora Diaz.
“Then
I did an internship in London
for KPMG, which is one of the top accounting firms in the world. It was the
first time I didn’t have a boyfriend, it was the first time I was living so far
away, and it was one of the best times of my life. I worked in the personal tax
department and I became really close to the head of the department, Bill Shaul,
and he became my life mentor. I also worked in the mergers and acquisitions
section. Rightfully, I was put in the fashion section and at that time I was
looking at these Japanese venture capitalists. I loved it. I worked there for
nine months, I never thought I was going home again! But I did go back to Sydney to finish my
degree.”
“Why
does my life revolve around my love life?” she says laughing. “The funny thing
is, and not many people know this, I’m always dumped. I never know when to
really acknowledge problems, I’ll just continue as if things were normal. I can
never bring myself to say we need to break up even if there’s a problem,”
George reveals. “I had a boyfriend in Sydney and
when we broke up, I went home to Manila,
and everything worked out. My career took a different turn.”
2. On growing up as a Diaz: “Every single
day it’s crazy. People close to our family know that there’s a certain level of
closeness they have to accept.”
When
asked what the craziest thing about her family is, and what she loves most,
George says, “That’s one and the same, the closeness. I can’t imagine a life
where I don’t have 10 crazy aunts. I speak to at least five of them a day! The
intensity of their inter-wovenness in each other’s lives. I’ve never seen
anything like it. Once you tell one aunt something, everybody knows. If it’s a
good thing, great. If it’s a bad thing, it’s a massive problem. For a man to be
a part of the family, you have to put up with a lot.”
On
her concept of beauty while growing up: “There was never any pressure from the
family. It’s an internal thing. I was a fat kid, and once you’re a fat kid,
you’ll always feel like a fat kid. Up to this day, whatever I’m wearing,
whatever weight I am, my first question is, ‘Do I look fat?’ There’s not a day
that passes without me feeling sh***y about my body. Which is so annoying. I
wouldn’t wish it on anybody.”
“Borgy
(Manotoc) has a predetermined response all the time, ‘No, you look great,
babe,’ In his eyes, I always look great, it is so sweet,” she shares about her
boyfriend.
3. Georgina
in numbers:
5:
number of times a week she goes to the gym. “Kickboxing, boxing, and weights.
It’s super intense in one hour.”
710,000+:
number of Instagram followers on her account, @ilovegeorgina
15:
number of minutes it takes her to get out the door in the morning. “But I am
such a slow person especially if I have to fix up.”
18:
age she got her first modeling gig, a TV commercial for Pond’s.
100+:
number of sunglasses in her personal collection.
4. On her social media posts that have
stirred controversy: “If it’s something I really believe in, I don’t have a
problem tweeting it and I don’t have a problem with people reacting negatively
to it.”
The
kissing photo of her and cousin Isabelle Daza: “There was a big fight between
Belle and I because we took that photo (exclusively) for Mark (Nicdao)’s book.
But I would never post it on social media. When people interviewed me about it
being our stand on gay rights, I said, ‘I didn’t post it, honestly you have to
talk to my cousin about that.’ I couldn’t hide how unhappy I was.”
The
post about people reelecting Erap into the presidency: “That was crazy. I was
living in Australia
and probably had 2,000 followers back then. Somebody dug up that tweet, took
out the date, and made it look like it was recent. In retrospect, if I had
known the audience I would be speaking to, I would never have used that
language. But my point was, how can we kick him out as president and he was
again supposedly gonna win?”
The
post about PNoy meeting Paris Hilton: “I don’t see why he needed to (meet with
her at 8 a.m. on a Monday). But if you feel that PNoy should have met with Paris then say why. It’s
not a you-hate-me, I-hate-you thing, it’s just sharing your opinion.”
5. On the secret to having your friends as
your business partners: “The number one thing is having respect for each
other.”
“Of
course we argue, but we had no trouble transitioning from best of friends to
workmates,” Georgina shares about her first business venture, Sunnies Studios,
with partners Eric Dee, Bea Soriano, and Martine Cajucom.
The
idea for Sunnies came January 2013 and their first store opened October of the
same year. “Bea and Eric had a store, Charlie, and I just wanted to help them
with their sunnies. They invited me to create a separate company then it just
took off, it was crazy. We’ve recently rebranded because we want an umbrella
company where we can do other things.” Within eight months, they’ve put up one
store and nine stations. “In the next three months, we are opening 15 more.”
6. Georgina’s
practical financial advice to every young working Pinoy:
1.
The good side of debt. “In the Filipino culture we are really afraid of debt,
but it’s something we need to introduce into our lifestyle, but in a really
responsible way. Learn from the mistakes of the West, but don’t be afraid of
it. It can grow your business in ways you could never with your own capital.”
2.
Understanding risks. “It’s really important in any investment to understand the
risks, be it a financial risk or competitive risks. Do your research, do your
due diligence. I did a lot of my school papers on the economic crash and
basically it was just that people didn’t understand what they were getting
into.”
3.
Safe bonds. “I’ve always believed in making your money work for you. Research
into the financial products available, I always put my money into treasury
bonds that offer around eight percent a year. Basically never just let it sit
in the bank. Know your risk appetite. Even with the smallest salary you can
feel the benefits.”
7. On her life choices and preferences: “I
think people think they know how I would live, but it is really not at all like
that.”
Traveling
in luxury or roughing it up? “If I’m paying I never travel business. My dream
in life is to see every single city in the world. I don’t need to get there
comfortably, I just need to get there. I don’t like spending too much on
hotels.”
Stay
up late or wake up early? “Definitely stay up late. I feel like my best ideas
come at 1a.m. I feel that it is the quiet time. I don’t know how to become a
morning person even if I have always wanted to be.”
With
or without makeup? “I personally used to feel insecure when I wouldn’t wear
makeup. But as I’ve gotten older, I don’t care as much. This is the way I look.
You just get more comfortable.”
Shoes
vs. bags vs. clothes? “It’s so ridiculous, I love everything. My wardrobe is
always everyone’s wardrobe, sometimes it’s like, ‘Oh, I guess that piece is
gone.’”
8. Her three biggest fashion investments:
“There’s
something about purchasing in fashion that makes my heart beat faster. My mind
is never off it, I’m always researching,” she shares.
1.
Celine Phantom tote. “I can just put everything in it. I use it every single
day.”
2.
Chanel ballet flats. “Nude with a black tip. It’s used to death.”
3.
Rick Owens black leather jacket. “I am obsessed with any beautiful material, I
just love touching it. I use it all the time especially when I travel.”
9. Georgina
opens up about the time she hit rock bottom: “It came as such a shock. It was
something I never thought was going to happen.”
“I
think that I’ve never experienced real heartbreak until then. This was a
feeling I’ve never felt before, it was really unprecedented in my life,”
reveals the 28-year-old model. “I am the rock in my family so I’ve always had
to be strong. And in that period of my life, I didn’t know how to move forward.
I didn’t know how to make sense of my life. I felt helpless. I didn’t even
know,” she breaks into tears.
“I
would never want to go through it again, but I also never wish it didn’t
happen. Being back together was not the biggest part of it, it’s really just
going through that journey. The level of rock bottom that you hit, it will
change you as a person. In a way, I had to go through that because I felt that
everything was in my hands, I could do everything. But it came to a point that
there was nothing I could do.”
“The
person that totally got me through it is Mavis, Borgy’s sister. We would talk
every single day. With Borgs and I, it was hard for me to accept because it
wasn’t because we didn’t love each other or not because we weren’t good for
each other. It was because I guess I’d taken things for granted. I am super the
type to push things away that I don’t want to deal with, and it kind of blew up
in my face. I was really arrogant enough to think that he would never leave me.
Is this really happening? You really can’t wait? I feel like he felt he wasn’t
important in my life anymore.”
“I
didn’t want to tell anyone about it back then because I didn’t understand it.
There were days where I was like a zombie, I could not get up from bed. And it
would be so ironic because those days, people would tweet me, ‘I wish I had
your life,’ and I’m like, are you kidding? I would want to have anybody’s life
right now, anybody but mine,” she recalls.
Nobody
seemed to know that Georgina and Borgy broke
up until they got back together, as work went on for her. “That happened so
many times, that I just had to be okay and it was not optional to not be. I
don’t know how I did it,” she breaks into tears again. “Thank God it’s over. I
had so many mall shows and shoots, and all I had to do was smile. And God,
there was nothing inside me that was smiling. I don’t know if I became
mechanical…it was really hard.”
“I
had to convince him that it was not going to be like it was before. I had to
show him that it was really me that wanted to get back together. The whole
experience, looking back, was humbling and I became a completely different
person,” Georgina shares of the six months
they were broken up.
10. On the biggest misconception people
have about her: “I want people to know that it’s not all perfect.”
“I
fall into the same trap. I look at someone’s life and say, ‘Ugh, her life is
amazing.’ God really created all of us equally in the best way possible. Some
people have things that you think you may admire, but they also have bigger
problems. Sometimes people comment on my posts, ‘You’re so pretty, I wanna kill
myself,’ or they say, ‘I’m so sad I feel so ugly.’ And I feel the same with a lot of people, I
feel they’re so gorgeous, I can’t deal.”
“Being
content with what you have is such a great gift. And not looking at others and
what they have. Especially in this industry, you look at someone and say, ‘Oh,
her life is probably perfect.’ Nobody’s life is perfect. Even if they make it
look like it is, because it’s on Instagram. There would days back then where I
would be funny on Instagram but in reality I was crying like hell. I post it
and I would think, that is such a lie right now, I don’t feel that at all.”
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Beyond
all the selfies and the #ootds, Georgina is
described by friends to be a finance whiz, a fiercely loyal friend, and a
focused hard worker. With age came her courage to admit her weaknesses and
acknowledge her vulnerability, so yes, she is human just like the rest of us.
She adds: “We all go through the same things. Usually when you’re given more,
you’re also given more to deal with.”
http://www.philstar.com/sunday-life/2014/06/01/1329544/georgina-wilson-being-dumped-it-was-such-shock
To borrow some words from another: this observer is fairly convinced that one couldn't be any more enamored with KC Concepcion's decent humanity and very considerate and down-to-earth nature, but after hearing her FAMAS award acceptance speech including 'the little people' (no disrespectful context just lack of better words), her driver, assistants in thanking everyone; and her voice breaking when dedicating her award to her grandmother, one is more convinced of her classy, genuinely humble, loving, kind-hearted nature. It is refreshing to see someone with privileged upbringing remain true to herself, grounded with gentle character never once trying to fit the mold. She's a fantastic role model for every hard working woman who wants to succeed without taking herself too seriously.
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